In His Own Words
About Him
I grew up in "the Valley" in L.A. so you know my humor. I've been told that I speak High English. I just came out of a 20 year monogamous relationship to an Afrikaans person with NPD disorder so I have some trust issues, but no baggage. There's no ex-lover that I long to reunite with. I'm a simple man with complicated thoughts and I'm an "X-class person". Your money don't impress me none.
I'm a true Rasta. True Rastas use the Christian Scriptures just like you.Not eating red meat is not part of True Rasta. I'm a carnivore myself. We don't deify Haile Selassie although we respect his importance to Ethiopians. Dreads and herbs are a personal choice.
I do not lie. There is no such thing as a "white lie" If you're a truth bender or devoid of conscience, you'd best wander on down the road. I've got zero tolerance for games.
Speaking of games, I like them all. My music is pretty eclectic but the playlist works. Blues, rock, jazz, house, old school ,hip-hop. I like beats and good lyrics.
I have six titanium screws in my back so I can only dance in secret. I can horseback ride, hike, fish, swim etc.
Spending the whole day cuddling is cool too.
My outlook on life is that it's all a test to see what lengths you will go to, to get what you want. Then, boop, it's over and you get your final grade.
About His Ideal Match
I want a woman of gentle and noble spirit to be yoked with in the coming troubled times. If you think the world is peachy keen and that life is what you make it, then you won't see the value in me.
I believe that love is a decision to love this person, forsaking all others, even in your secret thoughts.
It should be a considered decision taken over time.
Communication,teamwork, even agreement to disagree is essential.
Chemistry is very important. There are a lot of attractive people out there but are they your right person?
Easygoing but standing her ground.Desire for personal growth. A sense of irony and wonder. Cooperative not competitive. Soothing. Sensual not just sexual. An optimistic pessimist
A good cook who could teach me how to cook. I'm a gourmand aching to be a gourmet.
When you meet the right person you just want to be with them. Alone time shouldn't breed resentment.
When I was young I may or may not have hung out with gang members, "homies". We all know how gangs are surrogates for family. Well, I never "jumped in" because homies are generally dishonorable, but the root concept is great. You sink or swim together. No excuses. Your relationship with your wife is the core of your life, All other relationships are a satellite in comparison Any person who has a conscience doesn't need to be told what a deal breaker is. If you're my lady I'll jump in front of a bullet for you, but you'd best not stab me in the back while I'm doing it.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
Badplaas (Elukwatini), Mpumalanga, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
71 | |
Star Sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
181cm (5' 11.3") | |
Body Type: |
Ask me later | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair Colour: |
Shaved | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; Spanish | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Solvent |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
50 - 65 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Realistic; Stable; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Jazz; Latin; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Sci-Fi; Talk shows; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Yoga |
Sports: |
American Football; Archery; Backgammon; Badminton; Baseball; Birdwatching; Bodyboarding; Bowling; Bowls; Boxing; Camping; Canoeing; Chess; Cycling; Fencing; Fishing; Golf; Hiking; Horse Riding; Martial arts; Pool; Rowing; Scuba diving; Snooker; Snorkeling; Snowboarding; Softball; Surf skiing/kayaking; Swimming; Table Tennis; Walking; Water Polo; Weight training; White water rafting; Wrestling |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; German; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
Less than once a week |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
My friends are my main family |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Dream Home: |
Eco home in the bush |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using SA Reunited JewishSingles: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited; Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
